Welcome to The Commons! Our readers are a vast resource of wisdom and experience and we want to engage with you in a shared conversation about aging. In this space we will invite insightful bloggers and writers to share their thoughts on living the 3rd Act of life. We will also continue conversations started in our print magazine, providing more information and resources. Most important, we want to hear from you – your thoughts, ideas, wisdom and experiences. Join the conversation!


Earthquakes, floods, and hurricanes—nature has a way of making us feel small, of revealing our human folly and inadequacies. As natural disasters hit with alarming frequency (along with some man-made ones) my own internal alarm bells go off: How prepared am I should the “Big One” rock Seattle? I have put together my grab-and-go emergency kit, I have some freeze-dried food and water stored, I even have some emergency dog…More

I recently had a very short, intense, caregiving experience. It was Thursday morning, July 27th, and my mother’s husband, whose health had been slowly declining for years, woke panicked and gasping for breath. She asked him if he wanted her to call 911. He nodded emphatically. A whirl of sirens and red lights whisked him away and my 82-year-old mother drove to the hospital dazed and scared. The emergency room…More

Less than 24 months ago I plunged into the business world of aging when my husband, David, and I purchased a small publication called The Senior Guidebook as a semi-retirement business. At 59 I was starting to think about my own aging (and about my parent’s—they are in their 80’s) but I didn’t dwell on it. Like most Boomers I was in denial about what getting older really meant; retirement…More