By Sally Jean Fox Reviewed by Victoria Starr Marshall
“There’s more.”
In a moment of clarity, Sally Jean Fox realizes that the life path she’s invested so much in is no longer working for her. She has no idea what to do or what needs to change, only that there is more. Thus begins a journey of self-discovery told with courage and vulnerability, as Fox begins peeling back layers of self-judgment and starts to listen to her inner voice—the muse, Isabel.
It’s a crossroad many of us reach as we pass mid-life. Having checked all the boxes our culture tells us we must check—education, family, career—we come face-to-face with a life stage that, on the surface, appears to ask less of us and it can be deeply uncomfortable. Especially if we are carrying around unresolved baggage and limiting beliefs.
In Meeting the Muse After Midlife, Fox takes us with her as she faces her fears around growing older, and the realization that embracing creativity is a key to navigating aging with meaning and joy. This is the time for engagement, not retirement, and she must find the courage to experiment. First step is to embrace a beginner’s mindset and not hinder expression by seeking perfection. Being a beginner gives us permission to explore and try new things without judgment, and Fox throws herself at improv, speaking, performing, painting, and writing. When self-doubt arises, Isabel—and later her second muse, Marco—offer wise words of encouragement.
It’s not an easy journey, not for Fox, not for any of us. But having an inner dialogue with a wise muse of our own, the trustworthy support and encouragement of friends, and a guidebook by someone who’s on the path does ease the way. Meeting the Muse After Midlife is a quick and easy read and—as one of her cohorts—I could relate to many of Fox’s misadventures and challenges. I especially like how the book is organized into bite-size chapters, which provide an opportunity to pause and reflect before moving on. It’s a great memoir with helpful insights on living our next chapter.
Now, if only I could meet my own Isabel.
There is more. If you are a regular reader of 3rd Act Magazine, you will be familiar with Fox’s wonderful writing. Over the years she has contributed numerous articles and essays related to aging with confidence. You can read all her essays at 3rdActMagazine.com. Just type “Sally Fox” in the archive window to retrieve her stories along with numerous podcasts she has produced on aging. Meeting the Muse After Midlife is available at Amazon.com.